The “Overwhelm” Excuse

Not every profession and person is overwhelmed these days, but you wouldn’t quite know it from our discussions.

Ted Bauer
3 min readOct 27, 2022

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We could concoct a partial list (and it would only be partial) of things that overwhelm most people these days, and we could even do it at a macro- and micro-level. To wit:

Macro

  • Income inequality
  • Inflation
  • Women’s issues/abortion
  • The economy as a whole
  • The climate
  • Partisan bickering
  • What social media is doing to us

And then: Micro

  • Pleasing your boss
  • Getting your kids places
  • Figuring out if you’re doing a good job with your kids
  • Being a good spouse
  • Groceries
  • Keeping up with friends
  • Aging parents

Some of those “micro” and “macro” may overlap, of course.

We’ve even created terms around all this, including “languishing,” and I’d be completely surprised if “burnout” wasn’t a top-five term used since 2020.

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Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.