The Languishing Era

Ted Bauer
3 min readDec 29, 2021

Think about this: in two days, we will start Year III of COVID. Nuts to even consider, right? That’s why it’s probably not that surprising that Adam Grant’s article on languishing was the most-read article on New York Times in 2021. I have never really been a huge Adam Grant fan — feels like what he does is pop psychology, i.e. Gladwell — but it’s a good article where he defines languishing as such:

Languishing is a sense of stagnation and emptiness. It feels as if you’re muddling through your days, looking at your life through a foggy windshield. And it might be the dominant emotion of 2021.

More:

Languishing is the neglected middle child of mental health. It’s the void between depression and flourishing — the absence of well-being. You don’t have symptoms of mental illness, but you’re not the picture of mental health either. You’re not functioning at full capacity. Languishing dulls your motivation, disrupts your ability to focus, and triples the odds that you’ll cut back on work. It appears to be more common than major depression — and in some ways it may be a bigger risk factor for mental illness.

Does seem to describe 2021, yes. And parts of 2020. And now, with omicron and what happens next, probably chunks of 2022 as well. Goddamn.

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Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.