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Why people hate their boss

Ted Bauer
3 min readAug 21, 2022

Personally like my current manager, but generally think the concept of “employees” and “managers” is semi-doomed. TINYPulse — wrote about them once — just did a survey of 1,000 full-time employees (small sample size, yes) and asked them this basic question:

What would you change about your manager?

OK, cool. The results are summarized on Fast Company, and while 1,000 people is admittedly a small sample, I think it’s fairly universal. I conceptually kinda like what TINYPulse is trying to do as a whole, although I also think you can’t really solve an issue like “employee engagement” — real people stuff — with software.

Anyway, let’s get to their findings.

The top five things were:

  • Communicate better
  • Please retire or quit
  • Work on your people skills
  • I want a raise
  • You need to be a better leader

Let’s pick this apart, eh?

Communicate Better: This is everything. If you’re a manager, you have deliverables from higher than you. (That’s called “hierarchy.”) Those are often unclear, because your own manager probably sucks too — and is in a ton of meetings as well — and so you push them down the chain in an even-more-unclear-way. This is, ultimately, why only 1 of 2 people at most jobs even understands what they do. Think about that for a second: if you walk by 10 people at your office, 5 of them probably don’t know what exactly their job is. Um. That’s poor communication. You know why communication doesn’t matter, though? It’s not a revenue skill. People have been communicating poorly for decades/centuries/eons, and people are still making money. No one really gives a shit. If they did, they’d try to be better at it.

Please retire or quit: This is harsh/petty. The people saying this on a survey are probably in that “highly disengaged” bucket. Most managers are terrible. It’s a fact of life. Rather than worrying about them retiring (they won’t, because of 2008) or quitting (they won’t, same reason), think about how to work with them. Here’s one idea. Here’s another.

Work on your people skills: No shit. Here’s an idea: start with respecting your people. Then move to investing in them

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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Sometimes petty is all you have left to consider, although thats usually on the way out.

What would be *really* cool would be a study of turnaround companies that reversed this, (but I have to confess, I'm lazy and can't be bothered to trawl the psychology and business journals for this).

Haha loved it 😁