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What’s Up With Trust These Days?

Marriage, jobs, government, etc.

Ted Bauer
5 min readMar 7, 2023

My friend who is a big baseball mom over in Cincinnati tells me that, anecdotally, 55% of the moms in that scene express a desire to be divorced, telling their friends they can’t trust their husband with “anything.” I wrote this a couple of days ago on the true role of a husband in modernity:

Most comments and emails I got were “I can’t trust my husband with anything” and/or “I wouldn’t trust 95% of men to be fathers.”

I think we all know trust in government and general public institutions is pretty low. You can call that a Trump problem, a COVID problem, a Fauci problem, etc. I cannot tell you what to call it; your individual belief structure will dictate that.

I think we also know that trust at work is pretty low. This existed before COVID, but it’s a COVID-era problem as well. As this article details, managers went from checking little boxes on their people — “Sally is sitting where I expect her to be on a Wednesday” — to having to manage remotely. Since most managers couldn’t manage their damn…

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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