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What Is Up With All These 20-Something Female Groomers?

This story continues to have more and more examples.

Ted Bauer
3 min readNov 19, 2024

Just this morning, I saw two more of these types of videos. In the above screenshot, you have a 27 year-old woman in Ohio who is essentially stalking (and calls herself “obsessive”) a younger man who just got a job at a middle school. I don’t think the younger man was underaged in this case, but it’s still what you’d call a “power dynamic” issue. Here’s the video.

Then you have Alyssa Zinger, out of Tampa, which is a 2023 case with recently-released body-cam. She was 21, apparently working in the Kroger bakery section, and was luring 13- and 14-year-old boys on Snapchat for sex, claiming she was 14 and homeschooled. She apparently had sex with five boys this way. Here’s that body-cam:

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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