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What if your morals actually worsen your community?

Ted Bauer
3 min readMar 9, 2021

I realize we live in a time of heavy confirmation bias, and people get into their digital filter bubbles or news bubbles and don’t necessarily come out for air that often, so most arguments of semi-logic fall on deaf ears in such an environment. But this morning, up too early for daylight savings, I read an article on contingency management, which is a way of treating addiction. Essentially, for showing up at check-ins and appointments, addicts can receive between $1 and $50. While it’s been highly-effective in studies, especially for meth and cocaine addiction, basically no insurers will touch it because there’s an idea it violates the federal kickback statute, i.e. if you give an addict $50, won’t they just go spend it back on meth?

All of this gets framed up as “moral objections,” which you hear a lot these days, including around (for generations) abortion. Personally I’ve never understood the whole abortion discussion, because it seems like most medical professionals have no true idea when life begins — heartbeat might be at 22 days? — and if people paid to know this stuff don’t really know it, why are we making such a big deal out of it? Also: if you bring a kid into the world via two parents and a family ecosystem that are not ready to handle the kid (insofar as anyone is ever “ready”), what good will that do for society? I know there are adoption…

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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