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The Intersection Of Leadership And Negative Thoughts

How do leaders manage the moments of self-doubt, both in themselves and their “subordinates?”

Ted Bauer
3 min readFeb 16, 2023

From here:

Humans experience an average of 60,000 thoughts a day. That’s one thought per second in every waking hour. Amazingly, 95% are the same thoughts repeated every day. On average, 80% of those habitual thoughts are negative, according to the Cleveland Clinic.

Those stats seem amazing on face, but when you consider them a little more, it’s actually probably logical. Habits are insanely powerful in terms of our daily behaviors. The “80 percent are negative” stat is kinda crazy; if you believe that fully, it means that essentially 4/5th of human existence is a negative, depressing experience. Wowzers.

This has powerful implications pretty much across your life, including:

  • Friendships
  • Romantic relationships
  • Co-workers
  • Random people on the street
  • Leadership

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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