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The Friendship Recession: In Reality, (Americans?) Don’t Prioritize Adult Friendships

That’s the simplest way to explain this stuff.

Ted Bauer
6 min readApr 3, 2023

If you’re unfamiliar with the term “friendship recession,” it’s most associated with a guy named Dan Cox, and subsequently more associated with men than women. There’s been a lot of discussion, from nuanced to hand-wringing to superficial, about the state of friendships in America and beyond over the last five or so years. The normal culprits in this discussion are:

  • Screen time
  • COVID
  • Neighbors don’t interact
  • Convenience of modern life, but also…
  • … busyness of modern life
  • Etc.

That’s definitely a huge part of the picture, but it’s not the entire picture. I’ve written a ton about friendships in the past three years. I won’t link everything for you, because that would be utter overkill, but I’ll give you two that probably matter somewhat to this discussion first:

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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