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The Dearth Of Honest Masculinity Takes

The idea can’t really evolve because most of society doesn’t want it to evolve.

Ted Bauer
6 min readOct 8, 2024

This picture above represents three men who are collectively worth more than the GDP of a good chunk of nations, and have (if I am counting properly) 20 kids between them, so an average of 6+ per man. Well over the fertility rate needed for successful development of society. One of those guys, Elon, even talks about that a lot (“doing my part!”). And yet, the grandest joy any of these men seem to get day-over-day is owning the libs, and/or painting America in disgusting, dire terms — i.e. “carnage in the streets” — that kinda makes you wonder why they wouldn’t take their money, go somewhere else, and live a better, cleaner life there as opposed to controlling the government. Until, of course, you realize the word “control” was in that last sentence, and once you have a certain amount of assets, the main thing you still want desperately is control — and maybe friends, which this photo nods to a little bit as well.

At the same time as this photo was happening and lots of people are/were debating masculinity and gender, this piece appeared in The New York Times:

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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