The Child Care Cliff And Various Downstream Implications Of It

America, a society for the affluent in terms of breeding.

Ted Bauer
5 min readFeb 26, 2024

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It’s a relatively well-reported (well, somewhat) trend since COVID that child care is increasingly expensive. A lot of couples I know, and couples you see on the news or YouTube, will talk about spending more on child care than their mortgage — which seems especially logical if they’re on “rate lock” at 3.5% or whatever. I know a few parents who think child care for 0–6 is “more expensive than college,” which doesn’t seem right but I’m sure it can feel that way in the moment.

The child care discussion is interesting for people because it’s so deeply tied to lots of other relevant discussions, including:

  • Money
  • The role of each gender
  • How to seem successful vs. how to actually be successful
  • Social media and its illusions of grandeur
  • How many kids you can actually have
  • Whether having that many kids is selfish and/or sustainable
  • Etc, etc.

Before we go any further, I think we need to establish this one basic fact: most of American life is designed to benefit the affluent. Child Care is no different. If you’re rich, this…

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Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.