Moms and dads care about personal growth. Why don’t male/female managers?

I wonder this a lot. I guess the easiest reason is “With kids, I produced this thing, so I care more.” I’d nod at that. I was at an event in 2019 and some guy had six kids, and his wife wanted a girl, all his kids were boys. She wanted a girl. He said, “We could adopt.” She said, “I wouldn’t love that child.” This is reality. But what I wonder, beyond this…