Marriage Has Declined Because The “Sex For Stability” Model Is Outdated
Lots of societal hand-wringing of late about the decline of marriage. If you zoom out a bit, the divorce rate is actually decreasing in America, although it’s increasing for older people, the so-called “Silver Splitters,” which may indicate that people cannot hold a marriage together with semi-increasing life span (statistically, when you factor in COVID, I believe life span is actually decreasing for both genders over the last half-decade).
It is very hard to generalize or talk about marriage in the aggregate, because every marriage is very unique and they occur at the intersection of 900 different things, including:
- How old you were when you met
- Your attitudes about kids
- Your attitudes about sex
- Your professions and your goals therein
- Your religious background
- Where in America you live
- Your familial history with divorce
So again, it’s hard to discuss it in the aggregate, but we can semi-try a little bit here.
I watch this lady Pearl sometimes on YouTube. A lot of her stuff is insufferable, but periodically it’s interesting. Here’s a short:
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In that one, she makes a binary argument about marriage:
- Men want sex.
- Women want stability.
Then she says 1 in 4 marriages are sexless. I’ve never seen that specific stat, but it wouldn’t surprise me.