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Instead Of “Getting Happier,” Change Your Environment

Seems like a better play.

Ted Bauer
3 min readFeb 20, 2024

Back in the day, I used to write a lot about happiness, including an article entitled “Happiness is bullshit.” (Don’t worry — I argued for “contentment” instead.) I also once spoke of the “U-Curve” of happiness.

Not that you should give a flying fuck, but it’s interesting to me to look back on these. I don’t think I was actually happy at the time. I moreso am now. Interesting. OK. That got deep.

At a broader level, though, I wouldn’t say society is very “happy.” You spend a lot of time at work, right? Most people do. Well, 85% of people in a global study don’t like their job. That’s a lot of time being unhappy.

Plus, we’ve got research that:

Doesn’t seem like a lot of happiness is walking through that door. Maybe we need a new approach.

Cue Blue Zones

Written about them once too! I think some of their stuff is trash, but in general it’s a good model for how to live longer, be successful, be happier, etc. Their founder just wrote a…

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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