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Are We Going To Prosecute The Parents Of Natalie (Samantha) Rupnow?

Ted Bauer
5 min readDec 19, 2024

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The shooter up in Madison, Wisconsin this week — which had a low body count, so sadly no one will remember this shooting in two months — was named Natalie Rupnow, but apparently went by the name “Samantha.” I am not sure what is happening there. There are varying troll reports that she was trans or had trans ideology, but that does not seem to be true (and, in fact, is worrying that “This person is trans!” is the first place that half of X users go).

The book on Rupnow from afar is almost too perfect for a school shooter: isolated female (the female part is admittedly rare), liked the Columbine shooters, wore the same shirts as them (an obscure German band), was chronically-online enough that she knew terms like “moids” and “foids” for the manifesto we’re linking to her, had a tough home life, her dad tried to connect with her via a shooting club, etc. All the clues were there. We just didn’t piece it all together before three people died. This is very common narrative.

Here’s a general breakdown of the family tumult:

Seems like Natalie was born in 2009, and her parents got married in 2011. Nice. But then they divorced, remarried, divorced again, remarried, and I believe had just semi-recently divorced a third time. She was predominantly living with her dad, or so it’s been reported. That would lead me to believe (although this is not fact) that the mom is some type of mess, because most judges side with women on custodial arrangements. It would seem to say “substance abuse” on the mom side, but who knows? If the writing attributed to the shooter is correct (I.e. if she actually wrote it), she apparently despised her mom. Some of this is tracking. In fact, this is kind of a similar backstory to Colt Gray, a school shooter in Georgia.

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

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I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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